Trust is mercurial after infidelity. 

Regaining trust after infidelity can be challenging. A woman wrote in wondering if she was the problem in her relationship, as she couldn't get over her boyfriend cheating on her. While it sounds like the cheating was long done, there were many red flags in her question. To me, her boyfriend's behavior smacks of gaslighting. 

You can read the question and my answer HERE. Let me know what you think!